Please do something.
This weekend we spent time with a friend we had not seen in a while. I would like to say this was a pleasant visit but it really wasn’t. This particular person just never seems to have anything positive to say about life at all. She kept talking about not having any social life and hating her job. The topic then diverted to how much she hates living in this area and how she would love to move. I just wanted to say something to the effect that she needs to stop complaining and make changes in her life. If you hate what you do then go back to school and get an online degree. If you have no social life then get out there and try something new to meet people. I just don’t have a great deal of sympathy when people aren’t doing anything to try to improve what is is their control to change in their life.