It does matter.
My husband is a fabulous guy. He works very hard and helps me around the house on a regular basis. There are many things around the house that wouldn’t get done if he didn’t do them. There is one thing I do not want him to help me with but he does anyways. He tries to help with the laundry and I wish that he wouldn’t. The reason I hate when he helps with laundry is because everything comes out of the laundry basket a wrinkly mess. There is no wrinkle remover in the world that can help our laundry once he is done with it. Aside from the wrinkles he also doesn’t sort the clothes before washing them. This means that towels get washed with sweaters and dark clothes with light clothes. You can imagine how pretty things look when he is done with them. Some of my favorite sweaters are not only wrinkled beyond compare but they are now covered in fuzz balls. I have no idea how to make him stop helping. I need to just ask him not to help but I don’t want him to think I don’t want help with other things in the house.